Prayers of Good Friday in 1962 Missal
Can anyone explain to me this discussion on the Jewish upset over the intercessions on Good Friday in the 1962 missal, when the moto proprio of Benedict XVI expressly forbids the 1962 missal being used during the Easter Triduum?
Where do you get the idea
Where do you get the idea that modern Judaism has "no salvific value"? That's quite a statement.
"Christ, present to us in
"Christ, present to us in His Body, which is the Church, is the one Mediator and the unique way of salvation." Lumen Gentium, 14
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Here today and Benedict xvi
Here today and Benedict xvi obviously prefer 'justifying historical rightness' to following the prayer of Christ 'that they may be one'. It is in my mind incorrect and immoral to exclude people who have a slightly different slant on the teachings of 'new contract'.
The use of the term 'new contract' came to me tonight for two reasons 1] because the 'New Contract' is all any of us have with Christ and 2] it is more personal than 'new testament' or 'church'.
1) The motu proprio does not
1) The motu proprio does not ban the Extraordinary Form over the Triduum. (Art. 2. In Masses celebrated without the people, each Catholic priest of the Latin rite, whether secular or regular, may use the Roman Missal published by Bl. Pope John XXIII in 1962, or the Roman Missal promulgated by Pope Paul VI in 1970, and may do so on any day with the exception of the Easter Triduum. For such celebrations, with either one Missal or the other, the priest has no need for permission from the Apostolic See or from his Ordinary.)
In fact, no private Masses (of either form) are offered over the Triduum, as the whole liturgy of the Church for those three days are considered parts of one liturgy. Even the Liturgy of the Hours is to be prayed (if possible) in public with the people.
2) As to why the Jews are upset that we pray for them, I don't have an answer. I would hope that they too would pray for the conversion of all to Judaism (presuming of course they believe it to be the one true faith), and for God's mercy on all peoples.
Here today most of the early
Here today most of the early Christians were converts from Judaism and praying for enlightenment for them might be marginally acceptable to them but on Good Friday we did not pray for enlightenment of the jews but we prayed for the conversion of the PERFIDIOUS [or 'treacherous'] JEWS. I think the word perfidious was struck by decree during the first weeks of Vatican 11. Maybe we should pray for the conversion of the 'perfidious' conservatives!!
The words of the prayer are
The words of the prayer are 'perfidis judaeis', which does not translate to treacherous, but to unfaithful. The meaning of the English word perfidious had changed, from unbelieving to treacherous, and thus the English translations were mandated to be changed in 1955. The word perfidis was dropped in 1960, and does not appear in the 1962 Missal. Perfidious is thus a double straw man arguement, it is not the prayer that was used, and that version of the prayer is still not to be used.
If the Jews have a problem with us praying for their conversion, that is their problem, not ours. We pray for the conversion of the whole world, and it would be contrary to Christian charity and the spiritual works of mercy to do otherwise.
I appreciate the attempt at
I appreciate the attempt at apologetics heretoday, and I also need to reitterate something I have written elsewhere. Vatican I theology and ecclesiology maintain within them a very virulent antisemitism which was not addressed until Vatican II.
One of the reasons my mother stated for leaving the Church was the loss of the Latin Mass, but another of her reasons was her perception that the Church had become way too soft on issues like the Jews, and the Blacks. In her mind Vatican II betrayed the supremacy of place held by European whites, and unjustly leveled the playing field for people not of 'our' kind.
She and I had numerous intense discussions concerning these issues, and over time she relented to some extent. Although she continued to donate to our local parish she never did return to regular Mass attendance.
In my mind, there's a lot more behind this return to Latin to which JPII youth such as yourself, are conveniently blind. There was a huge price paid by some 'others' inculcated in the very theology of the Tridentine Latin Mass. The dissension from the radical right was never just about the loss of Latin. Latin was just a convenient excuse to extricate oneself from the sudden level playing field.
Not apologetics, but
Not apologetics, but accuracy and history. Just as my denial at being a JPII youth (yes I know, I fit the profile), but a Catholic; faithful to the Papacy (not just a particular Pope), to the Church, to Tradition (the great democracy of the dead), but most of all to Christ, through the Blessed Virgin, in union with all the Saints and Angels.
The fight of young Catholics who desire tradition is not for any real or perceived racism, but for the faith of our (grand) fathers. The reverence of the Mass and faithfulness to the liturgical texts (which all state that "Latin is to be retained") are a large part of that desire, and the most visible part, but not the full extent of what we seek.
Shake my memory a bit, those
Shake my memory a bit, those who were there then, but it seems to me that the uproar over the changes of V2, which have somehow largely become focused on the use of Latin, actually were a response to the civil rights movement. The disquiet in my family and in my church frankly began with TV coverage of Catholic priests and sisters joining in the Southern civil rights movement, then many priests speaking in homilies about the Christian demands for equality. THAT'S what got some folks revved up against V2, and the rest of these liturgical changes became the strawman. It's social change that were still dealing with, and the lack of social trust that now exists between people as a result, yes?
I can't speak to the
I can't speak to the motivations of the past, but in my family their is a deep divide over the civil rights movement.
My mother, who grew up in the sixties and seventies, is very race cautious (trying to avoid the racism that has existed in her family). My siblings and I are not race cautious, because we were raised in an otherwise color-blind society. As we have reached college age we have been turned sour on the current "civil rights movement" as it no longer seeks equality, bu preferential treatment. Affirmative Action hurts those of us who are not considered minorities (the white male is not the majority anymore...). Scholarships based on merit are decreased to fund those based on race. We recognize that all ought to be equal, but that cannot happen as long as people are being treated differently because of their race.
The liturgy is not a strawman, but our chief concern. We feel that we have been robbed of our cultural and theological patrimony. The lack of trust that exists is fostered by the intellectualism of the left, that denies the legitimate aspirations of the faithful.
As long as the liturgy is
As long as the liturgy is your chief concern, and you feel you've been robbed of your cultural and theological patrimony you will be blind to much more than race in your spiritual life. You will continue to be blind to the 'self' serving aspects of that culture and theology you find so 'self' transcending. Blaming everything on the intellectualism of the left is also a strawman.
I am not, by their
I am not, by their definition, a traditionalist. I know that there were problems with life in the Church before Vatican II, and that the legitimate reforms of the council were necessary. I also think that the illegitimate actions taken in the name of the 'spirit' of the council have done greater harm to the Church, in far less time.
The changes to the liturgy are the single largest change done in the name of the council, and yet were nowhere called for by the council. Many smaller, but perhaps more telling, changes came largely as results of the changes in the liturgy: the decrease in belief in the real presence, the decrease in Mass attendance, the decrease in confessions, the decrease in pious devotions.
My generation has been denied nearly two thousand years of Church history, culture, and teaching. We are not blind to your generation's concerns, just largely sick of them being presented as the sum total of the Catholic Faith. Yes, social justice issues, summed up so succinctly in the spiritual and corporal works of mercy, are important. But works do not save, only the grace of God given to mankind through the Sacrifice of the Cross can save.
I didn't blame everything on the intellectualism of the left, only the lack of trust, which is engendered by the "we do enough for you people" response to legitimate aspirations of the faithful (alternatives to this "party line" vary from "shut up and go away", to "well, jump through these hoops first and we'll think about it", to "why do you care so much about the liturgy anyway, there are more important things to do"). These answers, which contradict the rights of lay Catholics, are the product of a diseased intellectualism, that expects the "uneducated" masses to do as they're told.
I don't believe the changes
I don't believe the changes to the liturgy were the single largest change done in the name of the Council. They were symbolic of the sweeping changes brought about by the Council in areas all across the Catholic theological spectrum. The idea was to take us outside the framework of personal salvation as an individual private devotion and make us understand we were all in this salvation thing together.
Heretoday, you ended your post with the following sentence: "These answers, which contradict the rights of lay Catholics, are the product of a diseased intellectualism, that expects the "uneducated" masses to do as they're told."
I could have written this exact sentence forty years ago to describe the attitude of the clergy prior to Vatican II. Apparently, some attitudes in some clerical circles don't change. Either that or the message of collegiality never did penetrate ecclesiastical thinking.
"I could have written this
"I could have written this exact sentence forty years ago to describe the attitude of the clergy prior to Vatican II. Apparently, some attitudes in some clerical circles don't change."
Agreed, I am aware that things needed to change, but some important things have not changed while other things that only needed minor adjustment were turned on their heads.
"The idea was to take us outside the framework of personal salvation as an individual private devotion and make us understand we were all in this salvation thing together."
I don't think this is entirely accurate, especially as it goes against Catholic teaching. The Church has held a more moderate position on the balance between corporate and individual salvation than the protestant denominations, and I think V-II emphasized more the individual relationship with God and the community in contrast to the rules (while not changing many of the rules). The principal of collegiality is not a sudden development, but a return to a more ancient understanding of the Papacy (and closer to that of the E.Orthodox).
But any theological emphasis, for the average Catholic, is felt largely at Mass on Sunday (well, some Sundays now). Whether we focus on corporate or individual salvation, it is only made known to them through the Mass. The law of prayer becomes the law of belief, if for no other reason than laziness. This is why I feel that the liturgical changes were the largest change.
"We feel that we have been
"We feel that we have been robbed of our cultural and theological patrimony. The lack of trust that exists is fostered by the intellectualism of the left, that denies the legitimate aspirations of the faithful." Interesting sentence.
The skepticism of selective tradition revival is warranted by the obvious lack of credibility earned by the self-rightious fundamentalist right which decries "intellectualism" while applying significant intelligence rendered questionable by self-interest, pseudo good faith, abuse of history and logic and the trashing of that with which they do not agree.
As the dissertation on race and affirmative action would imply, being "robbed of our cultural...patrimony" would appear to mean loss of the security in presumption of white superiority and preference. Is it any wonder that there is a "lack of trust" in the "theological" dimension of the fundamentalist revival (selectively defined as "legitimate aspirations of the faithful)?
How do I dare speak thusly? Because I am one of the faithful and my aspirations are also legitimate. How come I don't agree with you?
I addressed two issues in my
I addressed two issues in my post: racism and the liturgy. AnnieO and colkoch raised the issue of their parents' generation resisting the changes of Vatican II due to racism, and that the liturgy was just a red herring to get back to the good ole days of societal racism.
The Civil Rights Movement in the USA has done a lot of good, however it no longer seeks equality but preferential treatment. Dr Martin Luther King spoke of a dream of a colorblind society, this dream will never occur as long as affirmative action is in place. Affirmative Action feeds racism, both in the white males who are denied scholarships and jobs to meet quotas, and in the minorities who seek power over those who never did them any wrong. In my generation there is no need for affirmative action (although W.E.B. DuBois argued against it from the beginning.) This is not part of our cultural patrimony, but the rights and equality of all men.
Your deliberate twisting of my words on the issue of the liturgy to meet you pre-conceived notions regarding racism (nicely done though, worthy of any major newspaper), would be despicable if it were not so easy for anyone to scroll up to see what I said.
You will note that I did not say that the legitimate aspirations being denied were the only legitimate aspirations, as you imply. Different groups of the faithful indeed desire different things, many of them are legitimate (ie within the law) desires. Many bishops are still trying to prevent the priests and the faithful whom they supposedly serve from having access to a liturgy that the Church acknowledges they have a right to use. Those who desire what is arguably the highest expression of Western and Christian culture (as argued by many atheists and other non-Catholics) are told given few opportunities to do so, and are told that this is a "generous" response. We are told that the destruction of historically and artistically significant altars is "necessary" but when we produce documents that say that care is to be taken to preserve such cultural treasures that we don't understand what is written in black and white.
BTW, that opening quote... two sentences.
I wish I lived in this
I wish I lived in this color-blind society. I live in Brooklyn. Where do you live?
Would you explain the difference in theology between the Latin and lately-vernacular Masses? (theological patrimony?)
Finally can Holy Mother, the Church endow a patrimony? What's the feminine?
Matrimony? No, that's something else.
Just a two hour drive south,
Just a two hour drive south, but it is not the society in general. My main social group growing up was the homeschool community, nearly all conservative Christians, including the few of us Catholics. ;-) When it came to 'socializing' age, race, and creed disappeared (gender too, outside of the 10-12 age range).
The difference in theology is not positive, that is there is nothing in either Mass that is strictly counter to the other. There is however a great deal of Catholic theology that was present in the old form that is not in the new. Many explicit references to the saints and the theology of the Eucharist (Real Presence and re-presentation of the Sacrifice of Calvary) were removed, along with most of the prayers dealing with our own sinfulness and need of forgiveness. A comparison of both Missals (in English) can be found here.
An example: The Confetior (apart from it being optional in the Ordinary Form)
Extraordinary Form I confess to almighty God, to blessed Mary ever virgin, to blessed Michael the archangel, to blessed John the Baptist, to the holy apostles Peter and Paul, to all the saints, and to you, father, that I have sinned exceedingly in thought, word, and deed: (All strike their breast three times saying:) through my fault, through my fault, through my most grievous fault. Therefore I beseech the blessed Mary ever virgin, blessed Michael the archangel, blessed John the Baptist, the holy apostles Peter and Paul, all the saints, and you, father, to pray to the Lord our God for me.
Ordinary Form I confess to almighty God, and to you, my brothers and sisters*, that I have sinned through my own fault** (all strike their breast)in my thoughts and in my words, in what I have done, and in what I have failed to do; and I ask blessed Mary, ever virgin, all the angels and saints, and you, my brothers and sisters*, to pray for me to the Lord our God.
The litanies were essentially chopped out, as well as the emphasis that we sin through our own failing (see note). Sacrosanctum Concilium can be read as desiring that one instance of the litany be removed (as a unnecessary repetition). While this is probably not the best comparison to show the extent of the change, it is the most convenient, as it is one of the few where the prayer was not altogether removed.
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* The Latin in both cases is "frater", perhaps more concisely rendered as bretheren
** The Latin here has not changed, "mea culpa, mea culpa, mea maxima culpa" remains but was not translated in the English. IIRC, this will be corrected in the new ICEL translation.
Thank you, thank you. You
Thank you, thank you. You are truly blessed to have grown up in such a wonderful environment. I lived for 5 years in the city of brotherly love during the late '60's and I saw how truly and how ironically the name was applied.
. I never took the time to examine both versions and to think about the implications of the differences. I like the addition of "and what I have failed to do," since my failures of charity far outweigh my intentional nastiness. Perhaps the 'bretheren' was inserted to bring the prayer in line with the biblical injunction to 'confess your sins to one another (Jas 5:16)'.
I never studied theology. My ideas of God come from the prayers I was taught, especially the prayers of the Mass. I will use the link and examine more closely the differences.
Thanks again.
"Perhaps the 'bretheren' was
"Perhaps the 'bretheren' was inserted to bring the prayer in line with the biblical injunction to 'confess your sins to one another (Jas 5:16)'."
Yes, that would seem to be correct, and not at all an inappropriate change in my mind (in the EF there are actually two confetiors, the priest's and the people's, the use of 'brethren' is more in line with the priest's). It is a shame that we traded asking directly for the prayers and aid of such great saints as St Michael, whem we could have just changed the one word.
Thank you for making the effort to look at the past. Most Catholics have never studied theology (I have only had one formal course, myself), but learn instead how you have, through the Mass.
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PS.: You know something is wrong when the mayor of "the city of brotherly love" says something to the effect of "Let's take it back for the brothers."
Not really sure where to pop
Not really sure where to pop in here with a comment about your perception of racism being a thing of the past because you have not developed racist attitudes. I think that, yes, you are not personally responsible for someone else's suffering due to racism in society and that affirmative action might provide someone else opportunity at your expense. I do not encourage you to see the big picture either.
I would, however, encourage you to advocate for something with which affirmative action might be replaced, rather than for its abolition, remembering, of course, that not every person who is qualified is provided all the opportunities of which he or she is worthy. My son was waitlisted at 7 out of 13 colleges to which he applied and rejected by 3, which means he was qualified for many more than he was given the opportunity to attend.
It is my understanding that homeschooled individuals are given even less than average respect in the college admissions process. Further, in the world of work, it almost matters not at all where you were educated so long as you can convince someone that your attitude and intelligence level is appropriate for the job. After that, its mostly based on your performance and your ability to get along with people.
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On another note, why such an emphasis on "my own fault", isn't it sometimes someone else's fault despite your best efforts? Shouldn't the emphasis properly be on God's forgiveness, and shouldn't that be a model for our own? Isn't that the more appropriate theological interpretation of Jesus and salvation?
I know that there is still
I know that there is still racism, but I also know that it is not limit to caucasians. It is also fostered by a system that treats people differently based on the color of their skin.
Affirmative action needs to be replaced by a colorblind process. Assign each student an application ID, so that admissions cannot be swayed by the name (although I have to recommend that parents stop trying to be unique with names). Purely base admissions on academics and service and leadership activities. (Frankly I would cut athletics, but that won't happen any time soon.)
Homeschoolers are not accepted at all at some colleges, but there are others who actively recruit homeschoolers. And yes, business is all about your abilities (although getting hired is still a matter of 'who you know'), although depending on the job not necessarily your personal skills.
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Our sins are our own fault. We choose to entertain that thought, speak those words, do (or not do) this other thing. In the moment we make a conscious choice, and there is no-one else to blame. Forgiveness can only be based on repentance, and much of the Mass was about forgiveness. But in order to seek that forgiveness we first have to realize our failings, and own up to them.
I think part of the problem
I think part of the problem is that because of their race some people find themselves in deprived socio-economic settings so that by the time of college applications some who might have the ability have been deprived of so much that they cannot hope to compete in a color-blind process.
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Yes our sins are our fault, but does it not belabor the point to repeat it to such a degree?
HT, you have access to your
HT, you have access to your "patrimony" in a new way, as of September 15, I think. Enjoy it. If the liturgy is your chief concern, it's been addressed. There is no longer a reason to try to amputate the left arm of the Body of Christ now, is there?
It is not so much a done
It is not so much a done deal, despite that it seems clear as the pope's intention. Many bishops are throwing obstacles in the way of any celebration of the Extraordinary Form (the Bishops of Eire, Pittsburgh, and all seven dioceses in Florida), with at least one forbidding it outright (Steubenville). But you are right, the healing process has begun, now to set the broken bones on the left arm... :-P
Always a bit behind the
Always a bit behind the curve on these things, but--for you, HT--I went so far as to look up 'emoticons.' Only to find that you were trying for cheeky, nyaahhh, nyahhhh, nyahhh, kind of thing. So if my previous post is not in the same spirit, let me say that I might have changed it a little had I "gotten" it earlier...:-)
Smart sharp response, as
Smart sharp response, as usual, HT. It has been an interesting long year on here in which you have slowly moved out of the amputation mode into now "setting broken bones." So I will take that as progress...
I suspect part of the Pope's intention, since rarely are such things singular, is to end the discussion so that the church can move into some other issues. With any luck, the vatican will find ways now to separate itself from each and every complaint about some liturgical practice somewhere, which is hardly how they are likely to be wanting to spend their lives. I'm guessing that they think that's something bishops should be concerned with, sort of a "state's rights" issue. There is a little more to this world than American church politics, I mean really. There will be people still unhappy with bishops and pastors, as there have been from the earliest of times in the church, and some of that will have to do with the bishops and pastors and some of that will have to do with the unhappy people. We all have brokenness. We all have blinders and splints and boulders in our eyes.
Now, I will hope that you understand that these popes that you express loyalty to in another post on this thread have not all sought to make all these changes in the "left's" bones that you are, and perhaps that is interesting. Perhaps they only want to use the "left's" money and talents for their own selfish reasons, or perhaps they do not see such brokenness in other "sides" as you would like. I could say 'time will tell', but it is really seen in the words of the final judgment, which I will refrain from reminding (one such as you) of. People can get to a similar place from different places, or what's an earth for?
I did mean it as a tongue in
I did mean it as a tongue in cheek comment: half joke, half serious.
I think that the Pope intends to rebuild the understanding of the liturgy as something not our own, but of God's that we are entrusted with, so that the complaints stop because the problems have stopped. The Holy See has stepped in after decades of complaints, first allowing the older missal, than insisting that it be permitted 'generously'. The bishops continued to deny the faithfuls' legitimate requests. So the Pope, who has sworn like Peter to feed Christ's sheep, had to step in again, and this time with some muscle behind his words.
Subsidiarity would hold that most issues should be decided by the local bishop, but so many have been cut off by their bishop that it will be a long time before we see this principle in action. The changes in the wake of V-II were like a train wreck, no-one has escaped unscathed. Forty years later the Pope is trying to straighten things out, pointing out to both extremes that V-II, properly read, in not a break in continuity.
But to straighten out these bones, they must first be re-broken, which will be an extremely painful process for the Church. Healing of the wounds, however, can only come with unity to the whole.
I have no idea what bones
I have no idea what bones you think must be "re-broken" as you love the drama (without any specifics, who can respond to such drama with anything but higher drama or collapsing fear?) when it comes to your frightening plans for the future, but it is obvious that you have a plan afoot. It does sound painful indeed, so I'm glad that there will be such a happy ending together in heaven for us all. Peace this holiday weekend, young friend! :-)
How can you say that? If
How can you say that? If Jews have a problem with us, then, of course we have a problem. Not just for all the reasons we've spoken about here: salvation is from the Jews, we are a grafted-in people, the first Christians identified themselves as Jews etc. We are family. If there's a problem, it's everybody's problem.
Charity and mercy. Think. Here's a community so ravaged by the holocaust that survival itself is a victory. From their perspective anything that threatens the integrity of the community may be seen as an extension of that violence. I know your heart is good and filled with love. But look at the situation through their eyes. Surely that is the least that love can do.
Whenever I am present at one
Whenever I am present at one of these prayers, I have a sense that it could just as easily be rephrased as "thank you God for not making me Jewish (or Lutheran, Muslim, etc)". What do you envision when you imagine this prayer for conversion being answered?
I wonder if the reason the
I wonder if the reason the Jews have a problem is for the same reason many Catholics have a problem. By this action the Pope is giving encouragement to Vatican I minded people who do not Accept Vatican II as presenting a theology and ecclesiology that departs RADICALLY from the ecclesiology/theology of Vatican I.
Nor does any comfort come to Jews, other Christians and Catholics from the July statement of the Vatican that other Christian churches "suffer from defects". It isn't good for any church, religion or people for Rome to be pointing a finger in the eyes of others and saying "our Church is truthier than your church". Nor does it validate Church credibility. Who in the Roman Catholic Church can say that the Roman Catholic Church does not "suffer defects"? And I am a partisan Roman Catholic! Jesus's admonition still applies: REMOVE THE SLIVVER FROM YOUR EYE BEFORE FAULTING THE SPECK IN OTHERS' EYES.
In his opening address to the Second Vatican Council, Pope John XXIII said: "The Spouse of Jesus Christ prefers to make use of the medicine of mercy rather than that of severity. She considers that she meets the needs of the present day by demonstrating the validity of her teaching rather than by condemnations"
Even John Paul II in "Ut Unum Sint" (that all may be one) acknowledged that the papal office is always subject to criticism and improvement, notwithstanding the fact that it is an essential structure of the Church. He specifically invited other churches to help him find ways of better exercizing the papal office in conforming faithfully to the gospel. The advice of these two venerable Popes well serve popes who follow and should be taken to heart in the matters above. The Jews, other Christians and Catholics have every right and reason to be unsettled by what obviously seems to be Vatican backsliding into Vatican I.







I believe many of you are
I believe many of you are entirely in the wrong mindset...one not grounded in obedience to the See of Peter. Many of you decry a "falling back into" a "Vatican I" mindset. This is very troublesome because it shows exactly what our beloved Holy Father, Pope Benedict, has been combating since the moment of his election- the Hermeneutic of Discontinuity. There cannot be a conflict between a "Vatican I" or "Vatican II" mindset anymore than there can be a conflict between a "Nicea" and "Trent" mindset. Either both are valid ecumenical councils or the whole Faith falls to pieces.
The prayer for the conversion of the Jews is not polemical and it is incredibly ancient. While the new prayer composed by the Holy Father says the exact same thing in a different biblical language it is unfortunate due to it being done in the same biblical manner- "in fear of the Jews."
We still pray for the conversion of the Jewish People even in the prayer for the Jews in the Novus Ordo Missal of 1970. There is just less explicit language than in the previous prayers. The teaching of the Church has not changed- there is no salvation outside the Barque of Peter and thus all must convert in order to save their souls (barring invincible ignorance of course- but we should never make exceptions the rule). Modern Judaism has no salvific value because the Old Covenant was fulfilled in the New and the Church is the new Israel. Jews must still convert in order to be saved, the same applies to Mohammedans, Hindus, Protestants, etc etc etc. It is not being "exclusive" or "rascist" or "intolerant" to preach the Gospel of Jesus Christ and to acknowledge that he is the Way the Truth and the Life and outside of Him there is no way to salvation. This is the eternal message of the Church and it cannot change.
Orthodox Jews pray three times daily "Thank you LORD for not making me a Gentile!" and "Thank you LORD for not making me a Woman!" Are we demanding that they change this prayer because it offends Gentiles? Are we demanding that they change this prayer because it is "chauvinistic?" Do we ask them to edit the Talmud because it contains blasphemies against Our Lord that I dare not repeat?
We let the Jews pray as they wish and they have no right to tell us Catholics that we cannot pray for them, at least we pray FOR them and not thank God that we were not born a Jew.
Instead of worrying about offending the Jews, or the heretics, or the Mohammedans, and the rest...perhaps we should be praying that the Lord lift the veils from their hearts that they may see the Light of Christ and may walk down the path of Salvation which is open to all...if they would just turn in that direction.